All of our calls will be held on Tuesdays at 9:30am, Sydney time. The call dates and times can be found below, and also in the shared google calendar. You’ll also be invited to RSVP to the calls inside our Kajabi community space - more on that later!

Hot Tip: We always recommend subscribing to the digital calendar, because it will automatically populate your own calendar in your own time zone, including those awkward few weeks where the northern and southern hemispheres have time changes for daylight savings at different times. It will save you a lot of hassle.

When you first view it, times will appear in Sydney, Australia time. But if you click the “➕” in the bottom right corner, you can subscribe to the calendar and it will automatically sync to your local timezone.

You’ll also find the link to access the call inside the calendar event, so on the day of your call, you can simply click the link in your calendar, and it will open zoom. Also, before each call you’ll receive a call reminder email with the link inside, so if you ever have trouble accessing your calendar, you can check your email.

The call will always be at the same link - https://zoom.us/j/5165615740

If you don’t have zoom downloaded onto your devices yet, we recommend getting that set up right away to avoid any tech hassles on the first day of your call. If you have more than one device, like a computer and a phone, download it to both for an easy switch if you have any tech or battery issues.

At this point it’s really natural if you’re feeling excited, but also a little apprehensive at either something new, a group of people, or, if this is not your first Fierce Salon rodeo (in which case, welcome back friend!) what’s going to happen in the months ahead.

I want you to know your feelings, whatever they are, are natural. And they are welcome here on any call they show up. The folks who join a group like this - maybe you can relate - are typically the type who hold it down for others most of the time, and generally have a lot of respect for other people’s boundaries, and a sensitivity and empathy towards the truth of what others are going through. So not only are you going to be in an amazing space with other people who care as much as you do, it’s also likely going to feel unnatural to be told it’s OK to be your whole self every day - but hopefully it also makes you feel like you can exhale.

And that is part of the plan.

Students tell me all the time that this is the one place they can say what they’re really thinking without fear of judgement or worry that it will impact their leadership - and that is a rare thing.

Many clients join the salon because aside from their main goals, part of what they want to do is learn to be more visible and active in their lives in a way that feels good - and this is a place to find what feels good, and practise the full range of letting yourself be seen. It starts with vulnerability and honesty in a space where that’s respectfully welcome.

It defies what we have been conditioned to do, and no, you’re not going to be pushed to share anything you’re not comfortable with, but it’s there as one of the layers as to why this space has been running since 2017, and people come back year on year.

Unlike school, or work, you’re not expected to be “on”, perfect, at your best, or even in a good mood to take part in our calls. One of the biggest standout differences of this space is the sense of acceptance and presence to exactly where you are and what’s happening today. So wear what you want - be that a celebratory attire, everyday clothing or your pyjamas - and show up how you are. It’s welcome and encouraged.

If you think about it, anything less is really quite unsustainable. Throughout the years since the Fierce Salon’s first inception, nothing is more certain than the fact that life is uncertain, and things will pop up that can seem to derail our carefully laid-out plans. Both good things, and challenging things.

The way we deal with that, and why our clients continue to achieve their goals is because we expect it. The standard is set that unless we can do something on our worst days, it’s not going to work long-term. This means not only do we usually get more done than expected, when the unexpected occurs, there’s room to move, heal, and deal.

People buy dream houses and move across states and countries. They go through breakups, burnout, break bones, pregnancies and births, loss, health challenges and hindrances to the schedule. Due to our filter towards exponential (and sustainable) growth, opportunities come up that we never saw coming or could have planned or predicted. We predict that they will. When they do, taking them is what makes it all the more fun! This is life. And we expect it to do what it does.

Working in this way once again is unusual, but this is why it feels so good, and lasts for so long. (If you’ve ever wondered if you’re cut out for “success” because you struggle to keep up and get things done because life has a hint of chaos to it, you’re going to adore this practice). The key distinction is - expect the unexpected. The one thing you can predict is unpredictability. We use this distinction to focus on what we can control, what we can automate, and what we can focus on, and let the rest do its thing.

Unless we have made an agreement about something I’ll be holding you accountable to on our calls, the only preparation required is that you have a space where you can comfortably hear and speak without distraction.

I recommend bringing a notebook, pouring a cuppa, reading back on what you’re creating for this season (you’ll learn more about this as we get into our calls), and bringing your most burning question, challenge, or share.

Some calls or weeks, you won’t have a question, or you won’t know what your question is, but something is there to be clarified, and that’s all part of it too.

Each call when we show up will be different from the last. As you know, there’s no set curriculum for the salon, but there is a rhythm and a framework we are working within, which is the seasonal container for creating what you’re here to create, and the distinctions we’re basing our actions upon. As you continue to read through this booklet you’ll learn we have the resource library where you can access tools to support you with where you’re starting and going, and with this, we will build you a tailored “curriculum” together, based on your intentions and resources.

On our calls, I treat the coaching as though when I am talking to one person, I am coaching everyone. The power of group coaching is that most of the time someone is receiving coaching on something you yourself either wanted to ask or didn’t know you needed to know - and it’s often when you’re not on the hot seat you get the most insight - because you’re able to take it in completely relaxed - you’ll see what I mean.

Most of the time, I will get to speak to most people on the call. Often however, I will spend a little more time on someone, mining for insights that I know will be important for everyone. I don’t set a timer with a set amount of time for every person every week, and overall throughout the year everyone gets the time they need over the time we’re together. It’s way less stressful (and far more effective) to trust the pace and timing than to try and control everyone’s participation.

If you have a burning question, I invite you to put your hand up on the call and ask it, or to even bring it into our community space so we can start the conversation before or after our call. There is always somewhere you can get a question answered.

Don’t hesitate to ask something that may feel “off-topic”, this is your space to ask what you need to ask. Also, don’t wait for the conversation to naturally get to where you feel like you can slot your question in, practise just asking or you might be waiting forever! We talk about so many unexpected things in this space, and we go where we need to - but the magic of that is built on the collaboration between you and I - coach and client. Your questions are always welcome. Nothing is off-topic.

Sometimes you won’t know how to phrase the question, or what the question really is. That’s ok - my job is to help you work that out. Some calls you’ll want to just listen, and not necessarily speak. That’s also ok.

Show up ready to filter for, catch an insight, and apply it, and to ask for what you need. You won’t be missed, you won’t go unnoticed, you can be where you are. I have got you.

As you may know, you’re joining a group of brilliant humans who have committed to building sustainable success over at least twelve months. Some members may have already been in the room for a year or more, returning after an initial round. They’ll be well-seasoned in the rhythm of the space and continuing momentum from past calls, often with a year’s worth of context behind them. Others, like you, will be fresh, or reasonably so.

We know this can feel intimidating. Please know that it’s completely natural to feel a little vulnerable walking into an established space. We’re here to make that transition feel as smooth as possible.

Everyone in this room is starting from a different place - whether that’s experience, financial resources, or the current season of life (which may be challenging, joyful, or both). This is why the timeline doesn’t really matter. Because you’re not “behind.” You’re starting from where you are - and that’s the only place you can start. That’s also the only place that matters.

Comparison is a scam and a trap. The playing field was never equal. The starting line was never the same.

And it’s worth noting - while it can feel vulnerable to be the new one, it’s also vulnerable to have new faces join when you’ve been here a while. The beauty of this space is that over time, it becomes easier and safer to be open. Many people say they’ve never felt so seen and understood as they do inside these masterminds. That’s because we take your privacy, and your freedom to be fully you, seriously.

So with that said, here are a few thoughts on how to land in this space feeling powerful, show up for yourself, and ease right in (because honestly, it might just feel like you’ve always been here). You’re here for a reason, after all.

I’m a fierce advocate for privacy and for preserving the intimacy of this group. Coaching begins from the moment you enter, and confidentiality is non-negotiable. This protects what you share, what you witness, and the integrity of the space as a whole.

The standard is simple: we treat one another with the same dignity and respect we hope to receive ourselves. In order to get the most out of this space, you need to feel brave - and safe - enough to speak the truth of what’s really on your mind.

Belonging is required in order to go from good to great. And because you’re here, you already belong. That’s it. You wouldn’t be here otherwise.

On our calls, you’ll notice that when I’m coaching members who are already established, we may be continuing threads from earlier conversations. You’ll naturally begin to piece together each person’s story over time. My invitation is to think of it like stepping into a healthy, wonderful family dynamic that’s already in motion. You’re loved and accepted just as you are, and so is everyone else. While you’ll get to know each other over time, your belonging is also already assumed.

I’m sharing all of this because I know entering an established group can feel like a “sink or swim” moment. But I want you to dive right in - epically - and go straight to the heart of things. That’s what everyone else is doing.

You don’t have to. But that’s the invitation, and the standard we’ll hold.

No stress. In fact, sometimes the biggest insight you can get is from not showing up live on a call - and that’s the truth. Often when we sign up for coaching we think the quantity of calls we show up on is what matters, and it couldn’t be further from the truth. There are no extra gold stars for participation.

An Insight applied: That’s the difference that makes the difference.

So if you’re unwell or need a rest, trust that by not being on the call, you may even get a more powerful insight than trying to push through and show up, to “be a good student”. No such thing. Remember - unpredictable things happen, and we plan for it in every layer of how this experience is designed. You will get what you need.

Don’t forget, every call is recorded so you can re-listen later as well.

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1. Accessing the Kajabi Communities Space

• How to Join: After your Kajabi account has been setup, you can access the community via your login on Desktop here, and For Mobile App here: Google Play / App Store
• Login Details: If you are having trouble with your login, you can email us at hola@hayleycarr.tv

Once you login, you’ll see a welcome video from me, introducing you to how to use the community app. It’s mostly like facebook!

Remember - during this experience, your life is your curriculum. Yes, we work towards you creating more money, more profits, more freedom, more of everything you want - success as defined by you. We do it while being so aware of creating sustainability and space. And, life will happen. The secret sauce here is being able to achieve while life goes on. That’s the magic of this space.

Here are some ways I want to encourage you to use the community:

1. Post your weekly reviews for feedback from me every week (you’ll learn more about this later)
2. Update me and your fellow “sallies” on anything you want to be held accountable to doing - perhaps with photos of it done so we can celebrate
3. Use it as a space to practise being visible in a safe environment. In the past we’ve had clients do daily live videos to practise being on camera, sharing art, and showing progress images of things they’re working on.
4. Connect with the other “Sallies!”
5. Ask questions that come up between or after calls.
6. Ask for what you need.
7. Share your wins and lessons
8. Ask for what you need between calls - from all of us.

Our community platform will be housed in the Kajabi Communities app. When you click the link in your welcome email, jump straight in and introduce yourself. If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to reach out to hola@hayleycarr.tv.

Besides the obvious Rule #1, “don’t be a dick”, there are a few guidelines, but not really any rules.

First, don’t solicit business, this needs to be a sacred, safe space. If business relationships are going to occur between you and another member of the group, it will happen without the group space naturally.

Second, there are always folks with diverse backgrounds, experiences, education, ability, genders, age groups, sexuality, race, religion, and political preferences. So be kind and considerate. Diversity also means a diversity of opinion, so nobody will ever be considered “right” in such a world. Be sensitive and neutral to the fact that you’re in a group of people who may not believe what you believe, and that you respect, enjoy and appreciate this, rather than get defensive. It’s one of the elements of this space that I personally value so much, and will protect at all costs. (See Rule #1, “don’t be a dick”.)

Finally, there is so much room for you to be you in here. The main thing people worry about more than anything is if they’re taking up too much space by asking questions or sharing their progress. I dare you to take up space. Get to know the feeling of doing so, and being supported. I will continue to encourage this from you.

You will get as much as you give out of our community.

• Show up with your camera on wherever possible
• Get to the question - the story comes later. If we need more context, I will ask for it. This will save everyone time.
• Try not to chat or talk while someone else is talking (even in the private chat)
• Be present. Not being on the hotseat means even more opportunity for insight. We all get what we want when we pay attention to everything that goes on in the room.
• This is completely private. Please respect the privacy of everyone on the call, at all times. We’re going to go deep, and wide, and in order for us to get the results, and the 10x results, we need to feel safe to look at all the places we haven’t been safe to go just yet.
• Don’t hold someone to what they bring to the group, they’ll be different tomorrow. Hold them to what they’re here to create, and to be.
• Have Fun!

1. Fitting in Vs Belonging:
   “Fitting in is about assessing a situation and becoming who you need to be to be accepted. Belonging, on the other hand, doesn’t require us to change who we are; it requires us to be who we are.” - Brene Brown
2. Be Willing to drop your stories. You can say them, hold onto them, defend them… but be willing enough to let them go at the end of the day.
3. Slow down to speed up. In moments where you want to furrow your brow, and get on with it, take a breath, find the space between the breath, become present, and take one tiny action that serves you, or your “spaciousness”.
4. Play Full out. Whatever that means to you.
5. Own it or Change it. You have response-ability.
6. Hide nothing, Hold nothing back. (And if you NOTICE you’re hiding or holding back, CALL YOURSELF OUT. See #4 + #5 + #7)
7. Radical Responsibility - for yourself, for your energy, for your needs being met, for your situation, for your breakthrough. I trust you, in here. To ask for what you need, to sit back when you want, and to take care of yourself so you can show up powerfully. If that means you need to get up and move, do it. Do the opposite of what you usually do if you have to. I won’t let you hide, but I also won’t pull teeth to get you to do something.
8. Be a human of your word. And if you don’t meet your word, clean up the mess.
9. Anyone. Anywhere. Anytime - no such thing as “special” people, this is YOUR Time.
10. Nothing is random. If it’s coming up, it’s meant to.
11. If you don’t have a vulnerability hangover, you didn’t go deep enough. Hide nothing, and hold nothing back. Tell the truth, and the truth of the truth. Don’t be afraid to get messy, and be vulnerable.
12. Make it your personal mission to ensure everyone in here gets what they came for - and more.
13. ASK for what you want… coaching guidance, referrals, help - we won’t promise you’ll always get it but this is the place to build your ASKING Muscle. ENROL ME.
14. Let go of trying to look good. (See #6 and #11)
15. Don’t compare yourself to, or compete with, other salon members. Only yourself, ever!
16. Fail spectacularly, make mistakes, and collect more “No’s” than you’ve ever heard in your LIFE.
17. Don’t fight for your limitations. Fight for your dreams. I am not here to argue with you, I am here to mess with your thinking. If you want to fight to stay stuck, I wont argue with that either! This coach doesn’t pull teeth.
18. Everything can be a breakthrough if you let it. Trust your pace, your process, your timing. There is nothing ever “wrong” in the salon!
19. Allow yourself to dream bigger than you’ve ever dreamed, and take tinier steps than you’ve ever taken.
20. PLAY. This is how we turn our fear of failure and looking silly, into an experiment that feels like a release of stress, and a release of our highest creativity, fun, and big energy! The pizza game becomes a prank, not a death sentence!
21. Treat every moment in here like the last call. It will go quickly.

One final note about what you can expect in terms of your outcomes - and then I’ll leave the rest up to surprise - is the way your confidence and clarity will shift.

Occasionally, I’ll play a game with you. You never have to do anything unless you want to, but the concept of play makes it all the more fun to try things out with no attachment and see what happens.

Sometimes, I’ll turn up the flame on you. I’ll say something, give you a dare, reflect something back to you in direct terms that will turn the flame up on your action and results. You’re always in control once again of what you agree to, and I’m not here to be right, I’m here to mess with your thinking.

And for the entire duration of the salon, we’re going to be filtering for distinctions. Tiny bytes of insight you can draw from your experiences that will help you make decisions from a place of wisdom from here on out. For example, Slow down to speed up. I’ll share more about what this means on our calls, and over time you’ll build your own library of distinctions.

This is how we play.

People come back time and time again to take the salon, knowing that each time will hold new gems, and no two salons are the same. Due to the limited number of spaces we have in this space for coaching, I want you to know that as a past student your seat will be prioritised if you wish to stay on, or come back.

If you know you’d like to come back to do the next round, you can always book your place early, and you’ll receive a discount for being a returning member of the fierce salon. We will reach out towards the end as a reminder if that’s what you’d like to do.